There is a lot of negativity in the world which is something I think
I'll be coming back to a lot in this blog, but to start with I just
want to do a piece on positivity.
Self-worth is so important, it is
something a lot of people, young and old struggle with, I included,
this is probably seeking to myself as much as anyone.
But we do all have worth, everyone is created differently, and
sometimes all you can see is how you are different from everyone else
around you, and you feel inferior. This is not true, you have been
created to be you. Your challenges and talents are different from
every other person, but that's good. If we were, all the same, there
would be no uniqueness in the world, it would feel very much the same
and be very boring. Whatever struggles you are going through, you can
make it through them, and remember there are people to support you
(friends and family, and I'm here for everyone reading this). Most of
all we all have our talents/gifts and interests. It has taken me a
long time to realize that we have to find these and embrace them.
Talents are still something I struggle to see in myself, but I have
my writing, and maybe some photography/art skills, and I'm learning
to be a good friend which is an important skill. If you don't know
where your talents are, keep trying new things that you enjoy and
hopefully, you will find something. Your interests are so important
to what makes you special, it's what other people will learn to love
about you. Embrace them, even if they seem very different to
everyone's interests around you, find people who share them, or talk
to your friends about them, if they interest you, there is a chance
they will interest your friends.
Remember you are important, you deserve to be valued. I believe that
each person was created perfectly by God (Perfect in his sight if not
this world's). But even if that isn't for you now, believe me, that
you do have value because everyone does. Again, so much of the
negativity comes from this world we live in. There are experiences
put on us every day by those around us and ourselves. We have to learn when these are right and when they are wrong, they
are often wrong. The world wants to be perfect, like that person in
the magazine or on TV. They want us to feel the same, look the same,
to feel the same as everyone else. But that is the opposite of the
individuality we should be living. As I said at the beginning, we are
all different. We all have flaws in our natural beauty, but that
doesn't stop us being beautiful, we have to accept them and accept
other people's flaws. You will find aspects of your character that is
weird, I do every day, but that doesn't mean it's wrong, embrace it
and remember it's part of how you fit into this world. Also, learn to
accept these things about each other, you won't agree with everyone,
and sometimes your fellow human will seem strange to you. But if you
want other people to accept you, you have to accept them. Everyone
else has their place too, and we have to learn how to understand each
other better if we want the world to be a happier place.
I hope this helps someone, do you have
any advice for helping others to see each other positivity?
Brilliant post, Kirsty, and you are so valued. Thank you too for your support of me and my writing.
ReplyDeleteThank you Sheila. And thank you for your support.
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